Boys masturbating experience, Why is sex education important in India?
I was in school at the time I am going to talk about, so at that time I had no knowledge of sex education or even what sex was, only because none of my classmates knew the same thing. I had no idea what the female thing was and what kind of pleasure I felt at her touch. But suddenly that day came in my life when without my knowledge I felt my body touching with a girl. That girl was in the same school as me and she was a few years senior I called her Didi and was standing in a video suddenly I went behind her and stood as I felt her butt touch my private part.I couldn’t understand why I was suddenly feeling so happy when I had never felt anything like it before. I was just going crazy with pleasure I realized that I can’t stay in this position for long so it felt like I was not holding her and I kept touching my private part with her hip and my pleasure was increasing from double to triple to 3 times to 100 times.
But I could not stay in that state for a long time, Didi got away from me, so I didn’t get that joy anymore. I still had no idea about masturbation so when I got home I started thinking about what to do. Without understanding anything, I went straight to the bathroom as soon as I got home and took off my bottom pant. I didn’t understand why I was doing all these things. In fact, whatever I was doing, I was falling unconscious. Maybe I was responding to nature. Then I kept my private part in my hand and started stroking it and as a result I felt as if that lady’s hip was still touching my private part and I was getting the same pleasure. I closed Anand’s eyes when I felt a liquid in my hand that chatted with the liquid and I realized that I had extracted this liquid from my private part. To be honest I had no idea about this substance before but I had heard something like that from friends but I had no real practical experience at first I thought it was blood but later I realized it was not blood. I started to hate my own body. After masturbating for the first time in my life, my body started to feel very tired and I started thinking that I have done a lot of damage to my body, maybe I should talk to my family about this or I should go to the doctor but avoid the family to the doctor. I didn’t have the ability to go when I was a boy.
There was no possibility of talking to anyone at home, parents or any other family members, because a sense of shame always crept into my mind and with it a fear that I might have done myself some great harm. I should have told someone about us but I couldn’t. Actually this thing happens to all of us when we first step into adulthood many questions come to our mind but we don’t get all the answers. If we could have learned these things from a friend or parent or family member, maybe we would have avoided making many decisions that we shouldn’t have made. For example, due to excessive masturbation in childhood, we lose a lot of youth and feel tired very little. Real sex education must be come from class 1.
In India this concept of sex education came when we were kids ie from 90s though there was a discussion about it before that I don’t know the format but then we were kids and we used to hear about this and how we used to laugh. And there was a strong protest from the guardians of the students that there was no way to bring a taboo subject like sex education among the students in any way. Because of this conservative society we have a lot of damage today that we don’t understand one thing you tell me when a young boy or girl like me face this problem when he can’t tell his family or his teacher. How to solve the problem if the related problem does not have actual guidelines. This is why children educated in western education are progressing day by day and we who are stuck with old ideas are going backwards as long as we are not able to solve our problems but our thinking how can we be equal to western education we can definitely be equal to western education. But before that we have to solve these small problems.
Similarly, when girls first enter puberty, they have to face a peculiar female physical characteristic called menstruation, which they have no idea about, so sex education is essential so that they are aware of all these things in advance and to solve this problem. They can know what to do by themselves. Girls should know in advance about the good and bad touch of men and reserve their own body only for her loved ones then we have seen in many cases that girls in childhood are touched by many men as they want and they don’t realize that it is unfair to them. Most men have a misconception that they are unmarriageable when they masturbate excessively in childhood or that they cannot give physical satisfaction to their wives or have children even if they do get married so they must come out because of this. Sex education means if you masturbate a lot it does not mean that you are unable to make a baby you can definitely make a baby but if you face any problem you must consult a doctor and now modern Everything in Medical Science is possible. Just as excessive masturbation in a day is also very bad, the same is true for those who do not masturbate, i.e. minimum one time like maybe once in three or four days, there is no problem in the body, men must understand this. If you masturbate extra times a day like five or six times a day then your body will get tired and you will not be able to concentrate on any work. Even if you continue to do such excessive masturbation for a long time, there will come a time when your penis will become weak, that is, you will not be able to satisfy your wife, and the amount of sperm in your semen will also decrease. As a result you may also face difficulty in giving birth but one thing I must say is that no matter how you are having sexual pleasure before your marriage or how you are using youth or martyrdom you should consult a doctor at least once before marriage.
But many people have this misconception that I can’t get married because I masturbated a lot in my childhood because if I get married I won’t be able to make my wife enjoy it too. It’s a complete vote. Before getting married, please consult a doctor. Generally, long-term masturbation leads to various mental disorders in men, and from these mental disorders, several sexual diseases, such as Erectile Dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Nowadays people are spending a lot of money on these two diseases but because of this most of the time they are mental diseases. As a result of prolonged masturbation, he gets into a habit of looking at his private parts, i.e. when he goes to have sex with his partner, he keeps looking at his private parts, so his own private parts never get hard. Also because his penis is not as hard as it needs to be, their intercourse time is reduced so much that he falls into complete depression and he has many other diseases from mental guidance that need a psychiatrist to cure them. However, it is not that the whole mental problem is due to masturbation for a long time, the strength of the penis gradually decreases and as a result many technical problems are caused, it is very necessary to see a doctor.
When we face any problem, of course we go to the doctor, but if we have some basic education about the thing before going to the doctor, the process becomes much easier for us. I was talking about sex education and at the end I will come back to the same topic that if you don’t understand me how necessary sex education is nowadays then we may be far behind in competition with developed countries which they know today they are far ahead. But we are left behind with that old mindset, from which we must move forward, i.e. we have to understand that just like common diseases like cold, cough, fever, etc., sexual diseases are also diseases that can occur in our body and the sexual health of our own body. We need to know each and every detail well and we need to try to teach all those things to our next generation and for that we need a well organized syllabus and well organized plan. I have presented several parts of my life so that you can easily understand these things, but I will give many more reports on this matter so that the various things will be of great benefit to those of you who are taking the first steps in life.
