Why many men prefer simple life girls to modern girls for marriage?. Why is it bad in the eyes of society if girls wear short dresses?
Our society has divided girls into two different categories in choosing a life partner, one is simple girl and the other is modern girl.. But for many it is limited only to the clothes i.e. many people think that those who wear a little western dress are modern and those who want to limit themselves to Indian clothes or prefer Indian style are considered as simple girls. In fact, this idea is also completely wrong, if a girl likes western dresses, it does not mean that she will fall into the modern category. Also if a girl agrees to live in Indian clothes it does not mean that she is in the category of a simple girl. In fact this concept is completely wrong, if a girl or a man lives his life only thinking about his own needs and does not maintain any extra or special life to show people, then he must be called in the simple category. One who has no end of desires i.e. whose desires are immense he can never be happy on his own and at the same time he can never make his life partner happy. This desire is so fatal that our forefathers who were associated with spirituality asked themselves not to indulge in this desire because it is a vast ocean which has no end and it can never give you happiness in the long run by giving some temporary happiness which will increase the scope of your lust.
I was watching a short commercial where a high class couple is not happy with themselves because the wife demands too much from her husband and not every time the husband is unable to meet those demands. But they see a couple on a bicycle on the street and how happy they are. They don’t have the financial means to live a sophisticated life, but they are very happy in life because they have nothing more to ask for in life. Actually the wife asked her husband to gift a diamond ring but it is not possible for her husband because he has given many gifts her earlier earlier but still she wasn’t satisfied and want more . So he doesn’t like his wife anymore because she is a very demanding women. And in the end they end up backing away from the decision of divorce because they learn that it doesn’t take extra money to keep the love alive, just a little love and trust in each other but a peaceful atmosphere can exist in a family.
Actually this love should be there in every couple but in present case I see many wives demand a lot from their husbands because of which many husbands choose wrong way to earn money and remain poor all their life. If a man does not get proper advice from his wife then in most cases there is a possibility that he will become a barbarian in life. Again, I have seen many examples where husbands get proper support and love from their wives who can reach the pinnacle of development. I’m not talking about gender, both men and women, please don’t sacrifice your happiness and peace in your life chasing extra money, later you will realize that love was a real precious asset that you lost for money and many couples end their marriage because of this, even though they later regret it. Money is definitely needed in life but that doesn’t mean that we should run after money day and night without thinking about our happiness and peace. Which you will later feel guilty about. I don’t know why people find it so difficult to accept the fact that we need money as long as we live, that is, as long as we live, we need money and love, so we should never run after money. And love is the greatest wealth in a couple. Money has no value in the absence of love. No matter how much money a man or woman earns in his youth, that money cannot bring him enough happiness in his retirement. At that time the man realizes that even though he has all the money today, he has no one to talk to. That’s why many old couples suffer from depression to stay alone and they die before their time because in old age you have to stay at home alone and you have to enjoy your life alone or say you have to bear the hardships of your life which many people can’t. So then they realize the truth of life that once they ran after money all the time but could not enjoy love they made a mistake. That’s why I want to say to every person or specially to those couples who are sacrificing their love for money remember that money will not stay with you all your life. But because of love you can enjoy life better so take time to make important life decisions and think things a lot before making decisions.
