Ego Issues
One of the many mistakes I kept making when I first entered the workforce was ego. It is such a harmful aspect that never allows us to bring success in our work. Bringing success is much later, it does not guarantee us in our work. I myself have experienced this in my life. It never matters what post you are in or how much responsibility you have it depends on how much you can control the ego and your success in later life will depend on it. Just a few days ago, one of my senior officers told me that if you want to be great at work, don’t let the ego get in you. He wasn’t talking to me, he was trying to tell me that by using someone else’s example. This ego will never allow you to become established or successful. Let’s say someone says something to you while you are working and you feel that he insulted you but actually he had no intention of insulting you only because of your ego issue. That he insulted you. What you can do next is because of the ego you can insult the person back or leave the job and whatever decision you take the loss will be yours. At first you think you have won a lot but after a few days you will realize that you took the wrong decision, you overreacted only because of your ego issue.
Being among these ego people has damaged many young people. I myself am an example. When I first entered the workplace 10 to 12 years ago, I couldn’t settle down anywhere because of this ego issue. It was my personal problem but unfortunately I didn’t know anything about it then. The following experiences I have gradually accumulated and I have learned a lot from the society around me and I have realized that before entering the workplace you should leave the ego out of yourself or enter the workplace you will never last long in that workplace. For those youngsters i.e. freshers who are entering the workplace, please don’t let the ego get inside you, it will harm you more than you can imagine, so get rid of the ego, you will see a lot in life. will improve. It’s not just me, the personalities who are established in big positions today have sacrificed a lot at one time. If they had protested about everything from the beginning and intensified the ego issue in their minds, then maybe they would not have held that position today. Here someone can say then why I will not protest against injustice bro protesting against injustice is one thing but making ego issue bigger in yourself two things are completely different same thing you will react to small things but in fact that is every thing i.e. any small thing if you If you start reacting then it will be difficult for you to sustain the work in the field of work. I have seen many examples in my life. In reality this is what happens when you have no work i.e. when you are unemployed the amount of humiliation you have to endure in work is nothing so at any cost the work must survive and I will succeed in the work keep the thought in your mind. And work accordingly. Otherwise you will just move from one institution to another and your life will be spent doing so i.e. you will not be able to settle in any place. Yes if something big happens at work if you feel it is unfair then of course you protest but if you start protesting every little thing then it is not realistically correct and no one will support you because there is a lot to bear at work. Something is real that no one says but it is practical. Let’s say if you don’t work under the latter and if you are in business then you will often find that you have to listen to many unjust demands from customers who are your customers but you can’t directly tell them anything because that is adjustment another name of life is adjustment. That means you have to make adjustments somewhere. When you don’t have this ego issue, you will find that you will have more patience. One of my colleagues told me that if you can be patient, you can conquer all the difficult things in the world because this patience creates a strange power in people. Power teaches him to fight against much stronger things. I myself am an example of this. I have experienced it myself in my personal life. So I advise everyone not to let the ego get inside you in any way. There is no greater enemy in human life than this.
