Eliminate gender discrimination against women in society. Women should be given more security at workplace and in society and people should be educated in real sense to respect women
There are many boys who call girls arrogant and hate girls for that alone, but they never understand the real problems of a girl or try to understand how much trouble a girl has to go through in society. If you put yourself in a girl’s place, you will not understand how much trouble you will cause. First of all, if you do not reply to thousands of messages, then you will be considered arrogant by those thousands of people. Now think about whether it is possible for you to reply a message to a thousand strangers. Not only that but in any crowded places in bus trains many people see girls as commodities which is not correct at all. But if you are a woman you also have to face these problems. But even if you go to say something publicly, you will not get the support of many people. Women are still not completely safe in the workplace i.e. our society has become civilized it is true but in real sense they have not become civilized i.e. I myself have seen that when a woman works in the workplace everyone is targeting her. Why women are not safe in their own family and even in their own neighborhood only at work. Sometimes they are molested not by outsiders but by domestics, so we occasionally see in newspapers that women are being raped by family members or forced to provide all kinds of physical pleasures in silence. In very few cases these women get justice for all these injustices that happen to them but in most cases women have to bear this with their faces because our society is still a patriarchal society so here women have not got freedom in that sense yet.
There was a time when women were killed as soon as they were born in the mother’s womb i.e. the fetus was killed, although today it has reduced somewhat due to the government making many strict rules and regulations but still women are viewed in a crooked way in this society. When a girl is born in the family, no member of the family except the mother is really happy, that is, everyone outwardly shows that they are very happy, but inside they always wish that it would have been better if a boy was born. Then as the girl gradually grows up every moment she is shown to be inferior to a boy i.e. more so in middle class families. There was a time when girls were married off at a very young age to much older men as a result of which they had to suffer both physical and mental pain from a young age. They have to endure everything with their mouth shut. When a man spends the whole night outside the house and returns home in the morning, no member of the family goes to ask him if he was having an affair with a woman, but if it is the other way around, i.e. if a woman spends the whole night outside the house and returns home in the morning, then the door of that house is open for her. Gets locked up for life because everyone assumes she was having an affair with another man so she is no longer accepted in society. Our society is a patriarchal society so violence against women is a trivial matter in every case, after marriage a woman has to leave her family and go to another unknown family for the rest of her life, but there is no such rule in the case of men. If there is a male householder then the woman is more responsible. From birth to death, a girl endures pain every moment, sometimes by her own family, sometimes by society. When a boy smokes or takes drugs it is normal for the society but if a girl does that then she becomes the most hated woman in the society. There are still many classes of women in the society who do not have the rule to stay up to the window in the house, they cannot go out in the society without a veil.
My request to those who think that women are arrogant, look into the life of a woman even for a day and understand how much trouble they go through in these 24 hours from day to night. Many people think that only strict rules will fix everything, I think it will never, until people’s mentality is changed, nothing can be changed. Every man should first inculcate this thing in the mind that a woman is a human i.e. a human being the way we treat a woman should be treated with the same respect. A man who abuses women or questions their sense of pride if he puts his mother in that place will realize that it was actually wrong i.e. women never have sense of pride they are victims of a lot of oppression so I want to quickly put the world in a restricted place so that The amount of torture on them increases. Women are taught from a young age how to get through every bad time. Rather, if they were taught how to protest against injustice, maybe women would not be so oppressed today. As long as this gender disparity is removed, the society can never progress. No one has been educated in the true sense till date. That’s because there is a devil in every man’s mind, especially a man’s mind, which always wants to enjoy a woman. Women also understand this so some men find her arrogant when she tries to keep herself safe by confining herself to certain boundaries, but this is completely false. Just as a man is not willing to talk to a stranger for hours, so is the case with women. You have no right to call him arrogant because he is under no obligation to reply to messages from 1000 strangers. Do not insult women because you also remember that there is a woman behind your existence in this world, she is your mother. The same respect you give to your mother or sister, you should also give the same respect to other women in the society, only then we can be a real civilization and build a better society in the future.
