Exploitation and oppression of divorced women in middle class society. Why our society condemns divorced girls all the time,?
A girl’s life is like a flower, when she starts her life, everyone has a lot of attraction towards her. But when that flower has reached the end of its lifespan, it doesn’t matter much to everyone. There is a lot of craze about women in society when they first enter puberty. After six or seven years of reaching adulthood, they are no longer needed by society. Although at first there is pride in their form in their minds, gradually that pride gets mixed with the ground and the real woman is discovered from it. When the ego is gone from a woman, her true femininity comes out.
When the ego is gone from a woman, her true femininity comes out. Then there is no pride in them and a simple naive being adorns them even more. In many cases, I have seen divorced women have many problems in their marriages because the society still does not accept them easily even though it is no fault of theirs. All these women also change the way they talk so that they no longer have that pride because they also learn to understand that they can’t demand more now because they are never the first choice in society. Just as when the river first starts its life from the source and comes to the estuary and cannot go back even if it wants to, in this case the life of women is much like that. I don’t know why even today in our society women are blamed for almost every divorce but there is no justification that they are the ones responsible in all cases. Then they fall into such a situation that even if they want to, they cannot speak loudly, they cannot protest any wrongdoing, it is like a taste of death even from the condition of life.
The problem is that we have divided people into men and women, but first we should see each other as human beings, so we do not see them as human beings, we see them as women, that is why so much chaos and so much injustice is created in the society. If we looked at divorced women as human beings, maybe they would not be treated as unfairly as they are now. In many cases, they become bratyas in the society, that is, even from their existence, it is as if they do not exist for many people or there is no importance to talk about them. There are many men who want to accept a divorced woman in their life but they have objection if there are any children with them. Maybe society has learned to accept divorced women a bit but I don’t understand why society still can’t accept the child with her. Maybe the society will change one day and the suffering of these women will be reduced a lot but I don’t know when the day will come when we will see each other not as men or women but as human beings and respect each other. Our suffering is nothing compared to the torture and exploitation that divorced women have to endure every moment in our middle-class society at work and in social spheres. The thinking of our society needs to change a lot till now we may have been educated but not well educated. The day we learn to consider even a stranger as one of our family as we pass by on the street, we will be well educated or civilized. Not before that. The torture these divorced women have to endure all day, my writing may not have shown anything of it. But still, I tried to provoke a little in the minds of all those readers so that they think about this matter a little bit. Maybe if we want to change our society a little bit, you need to change this thinking.
