Nowadays people’s thinking is like a car without brakes
I have said before that the greatest danger to human civilization is the greed and violence lurking in the human mind. The bigger problem is that no human can be 100% perfect which we tend to forget when choosing our life partner. Everyone wants security both financially and socially but they are not willing to make any sacrifices in return i.e. it is like I go to the market and buy something with money and take it home and cook it and eat it with joy and satisfaction. Due to this mentality, the number of divorces in India and Bengali society is increasing and extreme dissatisfaction between husband and wife is increasing day by day. The problem is that no one is willing to sacrifice, no one is willing to make adjustments, each is determined to prove that it is right in its own place. I can say in my own case that I am a person I can never be 100% authentic just like I have good sides I have bad sides. So I have to be aware of the downside, just as I choose a suitable partner for me, it is not right to expect her to be completely flawless. Indian society was not like that. But since the influence of western education has started to increase here, I don’t know why people are changing, I am not blaming anyone only on gender, overall people’s thinking has changed a lot. They are very economically oriented and spirituality is almost non-existent among them.
At present in India namely in West Bengal it can be said that one percent people do not do government jobs but from the families of brides it is said that they are not willing to give their brides in marriage to anyone except government jobs. And also we know that nowadays the number of people in government jobs is very low because the government does not recruit in that way but very little. There are many cases where the bride is too old but still unable to get married because she cannot find a suitable government jobs person. There will come a time when they will not find any groom for themselves and will remain single for the rest of their lives. Or it may be that after a period of time when she can’t find anything she is forced to marry an older person. But even as a result of that, problems will appear between them because there will be no physical and mental similarities between them, so no matter where you go, the family will break down, that is, there will be a bad impact on the society, because the number of such incidents is increasing day by day. I don’t see any solution to this that any problem is created from people’s thoughts and the problem is solved from people’s thoughts. I don’t know when this good thought will come in people that they are gradually moving towards evil.
In fact, a tendency among people is that without any effort I will get all kinds of opportunities and people will respect me a lot. This kind of mentality creates such problems. Personally I’ve never had a guarantee in my life, maybe I’ll never get it and I’m not unhappy because I think maybe I deserve it. But mentally I am very happy because I prefer to stay far away from such dirty mentality because I never want to be measured like a commodity and used like a commodity for some money. It is surprising to think that this life of a few days, people have so much love, so much greed, so much hatred, I don’t know where they will go after death with so many things. It is very difficult to be a flawless person because at the end of the day we are all human because we have bad things in us, maybe we were not born human and maybe we would have been in a higher position. Everyone wants to be extraordinary, no one wants to be ordinary, but the little people behind the extraordinary will never understand the joy that lies in the ordinary. This desire to be extraordinary among ordinary people amazes me and I worry about their future generations because if they behave like this I don’t know how much more violent and demanding their next generation will be. May God bless them with good intelligence and may they continue to strive so that they can use their intelligence to live their lives and give a beautiful future generation. Although it is very difficult to turn back from the toxic road down which the thinking of human civilization has gone, I feel that the road leads to liberation, to happiness, to simplicity, and to attaining God.
